Life's Lessons Learned

by Dallin H Oaks

“I have learned things that have shaped my life and teachings, including some things of the heart not previously shared,” writes Elder Dallin H. Oaks in the introduction to this unique book. “This is an autobiography of learning and application rather than a compendium of doctrine.”Masterfully blending personal experiences with the doctrines of the gospel, Elder Oaks invites us to join him on a journey through some of the turning points in his life and the lessons he has learned through a lifetime of devotion to the Savior.The short but potent chapters offer perceptive observations into such diverse topics as the purpose of adversity, the importance of respecting those with whom we disagree personally or politically, the merits and limitations of law, the blessings of tithing, the seeming conflict between science and religion, the Lord's use of imperfect people to further His work, and the power of the Atonement to recover those who have fallen behind.Elder Oaks also relates the very personal lessons he learned from the death of his wife, June, and from his subsequent marriage to Kristen McMain.Woven throughout the book is Elder Oak's powerful testimony of the Savior and His mission. Life's Lessons Learned is a rare glimpse into the experiences of the heart that have shaped the life of an Apostle of God. ContentsAcknowledgmentsIntroductionPART 1. TO 1971"Not My Will, but Thine, Be Done"RecoveringTemple TeachingsThe Influence of Family HistoriesHonor the Sabbath DayHumilityThe Challenge of IndifferenceSeparating Respect, Affection, and PolicyThe Law Is a Blunt InstrumentTurning Points in LifeWorldly Wisdom Yields to RevelationPreparing for Things to ComePART II: BRIGHAM YOUNG UNIVERSITY AND THE UTAH SUPREME COURT, 1971 TO 1984Science and ReligionWhat Do You Want to Be Remembered For?Assigning Reasons to RevelationAdversityFeelingsGoal SettingPersonal RevelationLeadershipPART III: GENERAL AUTHORITY, 1984 TO PRESENTLearned from Legal TrainingTransition to the ApostleshipUnselfish ServiceThe Meaning of "Real Intent"Refusing RequestsRecognizing RevelationLabeling and TimingTithing BlessingsSins and MistakesLooking info the FuturePrinciples versus PreferencesCaution in Sharing Spiritual ExperiencesDeath of a SpouseSecond MarriageShaking Hands at Stake ConferencesGood Fruits from Unlikely SourcesTestimony of Jesus ChristIndex